How do I love thee (me)?

Instead of chastising yourself for being too single or not successful enough, why not count the ways you are, in fact, awesome?

THIS TIME TWO YEARS AGO I DID SOMETHING CALLED THE HOFFMAN PROCESS. It’s a weeklong intensive therapy course that’s meant to help you shed a lifetime’s worth of issues in eight days. A friend of a friend had done it and, although she didn’t tell me the details, I sensed it involved sharing your deepest, darkest secrets with strangers and talking about your childhood. It sounded like my idea of hell. I booked it.